Family morning

There is a certain conviction in the society that in order be happy and full one must build up a family. That is why probably a lot of you have heard a rather tactless question to my mind: ‘When are you going to build up your own family?’

People get used to live in families. A desire to create a family is not surprising. It is hidden not only in notorious expression ‘together easier, than alone’, but also in objective opportunity to feel yourself a part of, learn to share, give love and kindness. Family protects, gives a sense of value, rescues from loneliness.

People are different and so are families. What can be a taboo in one family, can be easily accepted in the other. There is no one universal standard. Personal life is one’s own business.

Family should be not appreciated as something given or imposed. It is your conscious choice.  You choose your own couple. You choose a harmonious life. You choose a happy being.

At the end family is not an important thing. Family is everything.

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Mityaev’s family in the pictures

Семейное утро

В обществе существует стойкая убежденность, что для того, чтобы быть счастливым и полноценным необходимо создать семью. Именно поэтому многим знаком, на мой взгляд, бестактный вопрос: “Когда уже?”.

Люди привыкли жить семьями. Желание создать семью не удивительно. Оно кроется не только в пресловутом выражении “вдвоем легче, чем одному”, но и является объективной возможностью почувствовать свою причастность, научиться делиться, дарить тепло и добро. Семья защищает человека, дает ему чувство полноценности, спасает его от одиночества.

Люди разные, а значит и семьи разные. То, что в одной семье табу, для другой может являться обыденностью. Здесь нет какого-либо универсального стандарта. Личная жизнь на то и личная, что ее может оценить только сам человек.

Семья – это вовсе не данность. Это Ваш осознанный выбор. Именно вы вправе выбрать своего будущего избранника. Вы вправе выбрать гармоничную жизнь. Вы вправе быть счастливым.

В конечном итоге, семья – это не главное. Семья – это всё.

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5 thoughts on “Family morning

  1. You are absolutely right. You help me see things differently :-). Congratulations to the family for the birth of Little Lady ;-). No doubt she is adored.
    Thank you for your nice wish Mari.

  2. This photo album and your blog touched me. My ideal in life. I was married once and I have a 19 year old son. But the marriage ended 14 years ago. What I see in those photos is my ideal and it does hurt inside that the family I have is not exactly that. But as a single mother, I am learning to accept that families come in many forms.

    1. Dear Dominique, thank you very much for taking time and reading the essay! I believe you have the best from your marriage – your wonderful son.

      What I would also like to say is that a young lady you see in the pictures is not a biological daugther of the man. That brings out the issue of who is the real father. The father is the one eager to up bring, eager to take risks and share love and kindness. That is the real father you see in the pictures. The little lady in the mommy’s belly has recently been born. I wish this family hundreds of years of happiness.

      And I wish you too be happy will all your heart. Give you lots of hugs!

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